Arma, that's it! I remember hearing about months ago and wanted to
look into it but never did. Thanks!

Red Orchestra - I never heard of that I'll check it out.

I'll look into that Battlefield mod but I'm not at all too keen on
mods.

ARMA is the one! Pretty realistic and great MP action.

RobP

I'm looking for a "decent" multiplayer FPS game that still has people
playing.

By "decent" i mean non-TF2, non-COD4 kiddie multiplayer FPS with
ducking/hopping/knifing grenading.

Battlefield blows chunks. I hate vehicles.

I just want guns and soliders and some kind of realism.

Do a lot of people still play Operation Flashpoint?

What about Ghost Recon?

Stalker: Clear Skies multiplayer a valid option? Stalker #1 had small
maps from what I remember.

I don't want small maps!

Vietcong?

Sometimes I like sniper maps, where it's just you and another couple
players sniping it out. I like the "taking your time" type of gameplay
sometimes. And then I like taking my rifle and hunting down the enemy.

I miss the Rainbow Six days - the Bank level was one of my favorites.